Guys, Has this ever happened to you?

Have you ever gone big on Valentines day or some other special day (Like A Birthday) for a Girlfriend and have it backfire on you.



I have done it 3x in my life times with girlfreinds and had it backfire. I am about to do it again with another one and am a little scared.



1st time for Valentines day



Two antigue dolls in a display case set with fresh flowers and 3 dozen roses and 2 balloons



Result the girlfriend got pissed at me for spending so much on her and it resulted in our break-up



2. One dozen roses with a large Teddy bear and two Balloons for a birthday.



result that night she ended up throwing herself all over another man resulting in our break up



3. One dozen roses for a valentines day.(Not Really big I know)



result got cussed out for spending to much money. Broke up resulted days later.



This valentines day speading rose petals all over my g/f bed with one dozen red roses in a vase and a card with a dainty necklace sitting on her night stand .

Guys, Has this ever happened to you?
Man.... you try too hard....
Reply:you try waaay too hard, no wonder ur scaring all the girls away lol!
Reply:yes, big plans, THE BIG QUESTION was going to be asked, plans were made. Blew up in my face so hard my hair straightened out!
Reply:Do you have #3's number? I'm just getting over a girl who is a gold-bricker. Thanks.



How about some chocolate? That's a known aphrodisiac and it may be why the other girls got so weird.
Reply:you must like hanging out at train wrecks and stuff
Reply:quit wasting your money, all your going too do is find some gold digging (*%26amp;#$ that only wants you for your money... How about listening too your girlfriend find out her likes/dislikes, and do something accordingly... If she likes opera, take her too a nice production with dinner before/afterwards... If she likes music, take her too a local show... Women like seeing the man actually paying attention and knowing a little of what they like so he can surprise them with things pertaining too them. Good luck.....
Reply:Wow you do go overboard. The reason why it backfires it's because you're too caught up with impressing her to even pay attention to what she really thinks of you. I think for this Valentine's day, find something inexpensive (%26lt;40 bucks) that will knock her socks off. The petals, the roses, the necklace, that's all movie script. Go original. That's how I like to approach things.
Reply:Thats really sweet....any girl that would get pissed at you for being that sweet is just stupid!!!! Go for it sweetie....don't give up the hopeless romantic thing....Stay sweet....good luck sweetie!!!
Reply:Boy! I thought that I had it bad. The one thing that I would advise you to do is to probably take your girlfriend out to dinner and then out dancing. Sometimes the gals like to experience your show of affection rather than to get flowers and the like. Personally, I thought all gals loved to get gifts, just like the ones you gave--I guess we are both wrong.

Is there something that you haven't told us? For three separate women to react the same way -- for getting nice gifts, something else must be at play! I hope this helped
Reply:my guy is a romantic and spoils me with sweet gifts and flowers! i LOVE it and all the sweet efforts he makes...



i think its wonderful that a guy is so thoughful and expressive - dont be discouraged as you will find a girl who appreciates such kind and loving sentiments!
Reply:ALL OF THEM ARE SWEET DNT KNW WHY ANY OF YA GFS BROKE UP WIV YA WISH MA BF DUN THT 4 ME!!!!!!!!!
Reply:they sound like ungrateful, unappreciative, bitches. you're better off without them. i'm sure you'll find a girl who will appreciate your romantic side. they are out there.

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