Women afraid of commitment?

This is kinda bizzare. I dated a girl that I liked alot. I would bring fresh flowers that I hand picked, talk to her about anything/everything, take her out to eat or see a movie, cuddle, and all sorts of other things. Then come to find out I'm told things are not working out and I get dumped. I never gave her any sex, but I did cuddle and spend time with her. The reason I didn't give her any sex is because I wanted to make sure she just wasn't in it for the sex. But I'm still not quiet sure, obviously she didn't love me...



As far as I can tell the ratio of screwed up men and women are about equal...Anyone know why she did this or women do this? (I know not all women are bad, but would still like some insight).

Women afraid of commitment?
maybe she was looking for sex or maybe she heard something about u, or maybe she had a change of heart u decide which one it is,the only thing i could suggest is to go ask her
Reply:women sya they want to be teat right and have all the things that you gave, this is true but when they get it all their own way they dont like it, you need to give a bit of balance, dont agree with everything they say do your own thing now and then, mix things up it adds a bit of spice, it keeps you both on your toes and keeps you both interested, if you always get what you want, you get get uninterested and put in less effort, treat them good yes, but look out out for yourself and mix things up at the same time.
Reply:She obviously is a quitter and wanted out.



Sorry that you got hurt,being hurt is no fun I know.



Take Care :)
Reply:Women always complain about commitment. They are the ones who can't make a commitment, most of them are two-faced.
Reply:You seem like you are about to do something very wrong - just because it didn't work out with one girl, you seem to be ready to generalise. Even with a certain amount of truth in it, no generalisation will help you with your relationship. It can only make things worse!.. The way you describe the relationship - its like a checklist - "I did everything right (cuddling:V, time:V, etc.), she says it's not working, therefore approximately most women are bad." But, you know, you say nothing about her. Maybe she does not like hand picked flowers; maybe she wanted to talk to you, not just listen; maybe she gave you her time, maybe she wanted to make sure what you were in for ... Stop calculating what you give and what you should receive. And besides, sex is not given, its shared...
Reply:You can give all the love you have, by roses, give money that you have, buy a beautyful home, a convertable car, Give all the expensive things in life that you can. If you where not meant to be together you were not and if the lady is not for you, you can't force her. It really hurts after all the impressions that you've gone through with her and after that she doesn't respect the men you are. I wish that all the men and women who deserve better in their relationships would be together, and it is not possible. By the way I wish you all the best in life, hoping that you will find someone who will love you for who you are not for what you do for her. Thanks
Reply:Some women are like that because they fear being hurt in the future so they get out before it happens. Others are like this because maybe their man was too clingy. Some of us are put off by a man who wants to constantly be there with us and doing everything together. Perhaps she needed more space. And maybe she was just wanting the sex she didn't get so she got out. No matter what the reason, this is the way it was supposed to be...with so many women out here, I would just move on. You will find the one that wants what you have to offer and that will appreciate who you are and what you do for her. Best wishes :)
Reply:If you did all this for her and were as sweet to her as this sounds, I feel sure you just 'werent her type' in the end - Que Sera Sera etc.



BUT I am sure there are lots of other girls out there would just LOVE a man to treat them this way.



Keep up the good work!
Reply:You know, It might not had to do with her fear of commitment, so much as perhaps she just sensed that the two of you weren't right. I think females are more keen on picking that up then us males. I had a female break up with me before simply because we couldn't get past just being friends, which is fine, but I think it really is the females that usually sense this while we almost adopt a kind of ignorance to the matter.



Perhaps this is what she picked up on?
Reply:well she is a loser...wat u did is wat most girls dream about in a guy (including me) but everyone is different mb to her ur actions just smothered her...though u held out on sex mb she still saw u rushed things a lil not giving her time to breath and figure out what she wants or if she could be in a relationship wit u.
Reply:this sadly has happend to me too... im guessing that she has either had problems with guys in the past or she is insecure or something like that
Reply:its not always about the physical for us...maybe she just missed being single and decided it wasnt the right time to b commited ... mayeb